tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26883902.post1760304924349562909..comments2024-03-25T11:09:41.538-04:00Comments on a minor friar blog: Me at BC: An Examination of ConscienceBrother Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07780326836452864455noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26883902.post-14203689816126473622010-11-07T13:39:50.401-05:002010-11-07T13:39:50.401-05:00Love it, Brother!Love it, Brother!Brother Charleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07780326836452864455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26883902.post-30357114153671475632010-11-07T13:28:46.150-05:002010-11-07T13:28:46.150-05:00This is a great post! I deal with this on an ever...This is a great post! I deal with this on an every day bases at the college i minister at and I have decided that I am going to be a shinning symbol of faith knowing that most wish I would just go away! I plan on making a sign at my college that says - "Christ and college; perfect together. He is present, never absent, and refuses to drop out of our life."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26883902.post-68656596240346450582010-11-07T08:59:25.419-05:002010-11-07T08:59:25.419-05:00Wherever we are sent to, God has a plan for us. Sp...Wherever we are sent to, God has a plan for us. Speak up your mind, God gave you the gift to do that.If they do not agree with you that is still OK, they will have something to think about.You are HIS disciple,He will always be there for you.God bless..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26883902.post-79559252260904934592010-11-05T12:11:12.589-04:002010-11-05T12:11:12.589-04:00Maybe it's time to watch the Sound of Music on...Maybe it's time to watch the Sound of Music once again when Mother Superior tells Maria that the walls of a convent is not meant to be a place by which one hides from problems. Life's journey is a constant discernment. Perhaps your 18 year old self was led towards Fransican discernment by the excesses of university life. Lest you should get too comfortable and bask in your newfound religious fervor, perhaps your more mature self is now challenged to go back into the wolves den and take on more of a "participant's" role rather than the "observer's" role of a student. I can think of no better role model for a broken catholic institution than someone who has been there and overcome. Here I am Lord, send me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26883902.post-77441877384425752962010-11-05T08:36:59.137-04:002010-11-05T08:36:59.137-04:00Your thoughts touched on a dream I have...
I beli...Your thoughts touched on a dream I have...<br /><br />I believe young people will flock to a Franciscan life, maybe not a vocation, but a secular ministry based on Franciscan charism with special emphasis on peacemaking. <br /><br />(A good part of the motivation for Taming the Wolf.)<br /><br />I wonder if your presence on campus does not provide opportunity for the dialogue of the type you sought when you were there...<br /><br />I'm guessing you would be surprised at the number of students seeking your counsel if it appears you are available in an informal manner. <br /><br />Perhaps you would have to start preaching to the birds, but then students would gather. <br /><br />(If you go to tamingthewolf.com and provide me with an address, I would be happy to send a complimentary copy of Taming the Wolf. The cover alone is a conversation starter...)Greghttp://tamingthewolf.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26883902.post-49575462646707171622010-11-04T15:32:43.251-04:002010-11-04T15:32:43.251-04:00Hmmm . . . maybe I struck a chord in my own post ...Hmmm . . . maybe I struck a chord in my own post yesterday?<br /><br />I did have something of the opposite struggle, as a very (some would say extremely) liberal Presbyterian in a conservative, to my way of thinking, seminary of my own denomination. <br /><br />However, I think it's important for to be aware that far more of our education and formation happens outside than inside the classroom. For me there was a challenge in that I was commuting and staying over three nights a week, so that I was not part of the week-end campus community, and then the much larger, inexpressibly larger, challenge of a family tragedy at the beginning of my second year, which turned my attention inward and toward home much more than toward seminary. My biggest regret about the institutional part of my training was that the circumstances of my life limited my community involvement.<br /><br />There's no question, however, that the conversations I had and friendships I made with those whose views differ from mine are among the greatest gifts of those years. It seems to me that if your order has asked you to train yo be a scholar in your field, then developing cordial relationships and genuine friendships with colleagues whose views you questions or perhaps even condemn is an essential part of your experience. <br /><br />How can we teach or preach or publish if we cannot find ways to love and care for those with whom we profoundly differ?<br /><br />(Not that it's the easiest thing!)Robinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01898073277524952683noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26883902.post-59972251125104425642010-11-04T14:46:08.616-04:002010-11-04T14:46:08.616-04:00Thanks for the post. Good points and you may send ...Thanks for the post. Good points and you may send me into depression. But....<br /><br />The issue is not BC and the students that go there. Faithful Catholics know that there are some real problems with contemporary university life viz. the Gospel. Read Benedict 16's stuff on faith and reason and his talk to university professors at CUA. The issue is (at least) two-fold: what is it that Christ wants me to see in these experiences? AND, if you truly believe is Incarnate Word of God, then there is nothing --absolutely nothing-- that you can't face with the Presence of Christ in front of you.<br /><br />When I start asking some very similar questions, I try to ask myself: when was the last time I really thought of Christ, that is, spent solid time in prayer?<br /><br />With Christ we are asked to judge reality not according to an old mentality as the unbelievers do, but with the new one He's given.<br /><br />Sure, BC's Catholicism may be very weak and some Jesuits (and other professors ) are flagrantly post-Christian, but don't be consumed by their sins.<br /><br />We can buy into the temptation the devil puts in front us that goes along these lines: you are not made for greatness; happiness is not real.<br /><br />On the contrary, Christ told us we are to do great things, we're made for greatness, and that happiness is given as a grace in this world in the next. Spiritual nihilism is not a Catholic approach to life!!!!<br /><br />Having said all this, life is not easy.<br /><br />The Capuchin witness on BC's campus opens the door to encounter Christ anew.<br /><br />PAX!Paul A. Zalonskihttp://communio.stblogs.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26883902.post-39897929995425364572010-11-04T14:00:35.142-04:002010-11-04T14:00:35.142-04:00Br. Charles,
When I talk about the person I am ...Br. Charles, <br /><br />When I talk about the person I am today, I talk about it as a natural progression of who I was at 15, and I find that most people talk about their adult selves in direct contrast to who they were and what they were doing at 15. Sometimes that's alienating. <br /><br />You could say I am a product of the decisions I made as a teenager, in a way that most of my peers are not, or at least not as conspicuously. <br /><br />Some of those decisions were rejections of a certain way of life that was being presented to me, but some of those decisions were positive. I wanted to be honest, brave, responsible, loving. I think I would have wanted those things anyway. <br /><br />As a convert in my late 20s I know that part of what I need to let go is the sorrow and anger, because I didn't convert as a teenager, and I might have.Saranoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26883902.post-75165512139919418552010-11-04T13:11:33.478-04:002010-11-04T13:11:33.478-04:00Maybe God sent you to BC to be a sign of contradic...Maybe God sent you to BC to be a sign of contradiction because He loves those kids, and wants, through your ministry to spare them some of their confoundedness.<br /><br />I don't expect you saw many of these kids in your parish work. College is the mission field.ben in denvernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26883902.post-14277352014260182212010-11-04T11:56:22.307-04:002010-11-04T11:56:22.307-04:00AdA: As always, you are a great encouragement and ...AdA: As always, you are a great encouragement and good example.Brother Charleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07780326836452864455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26883902.post-37721116125719145382010-11-04T11:47:54.943-04:002010-11-04T11:47:54.943-04:00Father,
I'm of two minds regarding this. On ...Father,<br /><br />I'm of two minds regarding this. On the one hand, you're a graduate student. You needn't spend a lot of time on campus, and that time will lessen still as you progress in your program. <br /><br />On the other hand, I felt the same way you did during much of my time in the PhD program, but my alienation stemmed the flagrant disregard for and mockery of Church teaching, authority, devotion, etc. that I found among my fellow graduate students and professors (some priests and nuns.) As a result, I shut myself off from everyone socially, and I think I only managed to further isolate myself further, and it just made me bitter.<br /><br />I'm sending an e-mail your way regarding something that might be of interest to you, and might help.Ad Abolendamnoreply@blogger.com