tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26883902.post1851370194617873005..comments2024-03-25T11:09:41.538-04:00Comments on a minor friar blog: Boundaries and FeelingsBrother Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07780326836452864455noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26883902.post-47625404933979685022010-05-21T13:57:47.346-04:002010-05-21T13:57:47.346-04:00Profoundly true. In mediation, as in Taming the Wo...Profoundly true. In mediation, as in Taming the Wolf, I have found that niceness can impede the process when, in contrast, a deep love that allows a party to turn to issues of integrity can bring about reconciliation.Author Greghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09251087160722264433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26883902.post-52495451317720599412010-05-19T13:30:22.451-04:002010-05-19T13:30:22.451-04:00Love it. Same goes with people who say mean things...Love it. Same goes with people who say mean things just to hurt you. What they say - nice or not - should not affect the truth, and it certainly should not dictate a response.Jeannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18217797935437208044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26883902.post-32514566204959820972010-05-19T10:10:58.007-04:002010-05-19T10:10:58.007-04:00This is absolutely excellent. Thanks for posting ...This is absolutely excellent. Thanks for posting it.The Ironic Catholichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12990289461877567408noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26883902.post-645906749132293272010-05-19T07:57:13.453-04:002010-05-19T07:57:13.453-04:00I particularly like your Twitter quote..."To ...I particularly like your Twitter quote..."To give niceness instead of charity is to deny people the freedom to get better. It is misdirected palliative care." I hope that this is what I get from my spiritual director and I think I do. All very well said. Thank you!!! CathyA Bit of the Blarneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18418671116015181693noreply@blogger.com