June 28, 2011

Fleeing From Sodom

In religious life and ministry we're all familiar with the pejorative sense of 'pastoral.' It's when in the name of being nice or avoiding difficult conversations we compromise the orthodoxy of our teaching or fail to give real pastoral care. For example, if a parish priest provides sacraments and services to everyone who calls or comes to the door, no questions asked, he is not really the kind and 'pastoral' minister he thinks he is, but has avoided real pastoral relationship just as much as the mean priest who discourages and dismisses people with all kinds of conditions, demands, and paperwork.

I have to say that one of these 'pastoral' moments comes up in the lectionary in these days. Between yesterday and today the gentle editors of the lectionary have us skip over the first part of Genesis 19, the sin of the Sodomites. Yesterday Abraham was pleading for Sodom, and today Lot and his family are escaping its destruction. What happened in between is safely omitted.

What was the sin of the Sodomites? Was it homosexual acts as it is in the common cultural imagination? Or could it be more properly violence, rape, and an egregious failure in hospitality? The lectionary, by omitting the passage, relieves sacred ministers from having to preach on these questions, and gives the praying Church permission not to reflect on them and wonder what grace of new understanding God might desire to give us.

And how salutary such a reflection might be in a Church which needs to struggle with its own legacy of the sexualized abuse of power!

But thanks to the lectionary today, we have one more nice little way to excuse ourselves from that challenge. How pastoral.


ex_fide said...

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Greg said...

Your comments mirror the dilemma that mediators, such as myself, encounter frequently. People assume we will be filled with the squishy, easygoing nature of appeasement and we will sit around singing kumbaya. So they are startled when the difficult questions are raised and we dive into the true depths of a conflict. The challenge of being pastoral appears to be the challenge of being able to sit with discomfort and never let the love waver.

Lee Strong said...

A clerihew of mine published in "Gilbert" magazine (of the American Chesterton Society) that fits with today's readings:

Lot's wife
ended her life
when she came to a halt
and proved her salt.